i've been married now for seven whole days. i got asked a lot this week, "so do you feel different?" the answer is, "yes." it's hard to explain, but i don't feel like everything is just the same old, same old. part of it is afterglow from all the lovey-dovey days leading up to and including the wedding, part of it is a generalized feeling of "wow." i keep thinking to myself, "i got married!" in getting married, that means everyone knows how much i love him, how much he loves me, and our intentions to be together for a long ass time. so it's not like i love him more, but more a sense that our families and friends are on board. in a very general, overwhelming way, it feels really good to be married. it's a subtle difference, but different anyway. it's awesome. i always felt like we were a good team before, but now i'm ready to buy us uniforms with our names embroidered on them.
people were surprised to see me back at work this week, everyone thought i'd take some time off for moving but guess what? i'm retarded and want to save that vacation time for the summer. i have three day weekends and strong kids, so no taking time off for moving! plus, i think next week i'll just rent a truck for a day and we can do it all at once. whatever it costs will be worth it to not have to make a million trips.
i also cut off all my hair this week, downloaded and printed the million and two forms it takes to change your name, and sent out a billion thank you cards (i still have some left to do, of course). overall, i think my first week of wedded bliss went well. it's too early to tell, but i think i might be a kick-ass wife.
also, here is the song we picked for our first dance. okay, our only dance. it's hard to dance when everyone wants to talk to you!
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What a nice looking family you guys are! Post a picture of your new hair!
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